Bianca Vaccarini

The only opinion that matters is your own.

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I found this card my big wrote to me during big sis week, before I knew she was my big sis.  She was only around for a year and a half before she studied abroad and graduated so I haven’t seen her in a long time. I remember the day I met her during recruitment, and I knew she was the reason I wanted to be a DZ. At the end of every day during rush the only name I could remember was hers.  The semester after she took me as her little, she took another little.  I was not fond of being a twin, I was not fond of having to share my big sis with someone else.  But I got over it, and I promised I would never make my little feel second rate by taking another one.  

I found this card my big wrote to me during big sis week, before I knew she was my big sis.  She was only around for a year and a half before she studied abroad and graduated so I haven’t seen her in a long time. I remember the day I met her during recruitment, and I knew she was the reason I wanted to be a DZ. At the end of every day during rush the only name I could remember was hers.  The semester after she took me as her little, she took another little.  I was not fond of being a twin, I was not fond of having to share my big sis with someone else.  But I got over it, and I promised I would never make my little feel second rate by taking another one.  

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Wait, don’t sororities require you to party?” -Non greek community college friend.

I hate all of the stereotypes behind greek life.  I get asked the most annoying questions by my non greek friends…

Or my 2nd favorite is:

“What is it like to be hazed?”

It is hard to explain that not every sorority or fraternity adheres to greek stereotypes.  Then they look at you like you have no idea what you are talking about. Some houses do value sisterhood and respecting its members, sorry you base your impressions off of what your hazed and required-to-party greek friends say about greek life because it reinforces what you already believe to be true.

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